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However, the following Top 10 Reasons are a paved path to financial hell:
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9) No specific financial goals. A wise man once said that if you are not planning to go anywhere, you are guaranteed to get there!
3) Relying on incompetent advisors. And since many folks do not have the "know how" on managing their own finances, they turn in their own financial "steering wheel" to so-called "experts" such as financial planners, remisiers, and even... insurance salespeople!
By the time they realize, it is often too late. They are either out of time or money or even both. Creepy!
1) No financial education. This is definitely the number one reason why we mess up our financial lives because no one taught us how to manage it! Think about it: who teaches you how to manage your finances? The answer is a resounding "no one". The conventional school we attend does not teach us, neither does business school nor our bosses.
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5) Greed. Like any other drug, greed empties our minds of our logic and this is the main reason why some people are throwing in their life savings into the stock market or any "get rich quick schemes" without having proper education or at least professional information and guidance.
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However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in reality, everyone tends to follow the crowd and try to be "in". We are, after all, social creatures, and we would like to know and be in what is the latest trend and be cool in our own ways.
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4) Expensive "free" advice. Lousy "free" advice cannot only come from your own family members who have never "been there,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], done that", but they can even come from professionals!
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That would make you a contrarian at times, but why join everyone else in jumping down from a tall building when you can take a lift down to the ground floor?
No desire to learn and invest in financial education. Another irony is that many others do not want to learn how to manage their finances because they are afraid of being labeled as "money-faced". How misguided are these people!
7) No priorities in personal finance management. Even though many folks think that personal finance management is important, they are not treating it just as important, but too lightly in fact.
And that seems to be the case with many of us today. By the way, "making lots and lots of money" is not clear enough a goal. And more often,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that is a fantasy rather than a realistic goal worth achieving.
While there are genuinely great people among these ranks when it comes to finances, most of them are NOT personal finance gurus.
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Since you and I know that more than 95% of the human population are not rich, either, our neighbors next door are obviously just as blind as we are.
6) Insufficient knowledge. Investing simply without knowing what you are doing is a financial suicide! That is like driving a car without knowing how and where to go!
10) "Following the crowd" mentality. Some call it the "herd" mentality, too. Having said that a large percentage of the population is not rich and that wealth is in the hands of the very few, you are probably not doing anything right more than 90% of the time especially when it comes to your finances and also especially if you are taking other people's tip or advice. A quick tip to get around this is to NOT do what the majority of the crowd is doing, or do exactly the opposite.
And because most of us do not have proper financial goals, we just wander aimlessly and drift through life.
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Many people say I am a dead man walking. In fact,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I stopped going to my high school and college reunions years ago because too many of my old friends and classmates had that "deer in the headlights" look when they saw me walk in! I would hear things like: "I thought you were kidnapped in Guatemala", or "The last I heard you were on a sailboat that did not make it the Canaries." In short,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], my family and friends thought I would never stop using cocaine or survive from life-threatening hepatitis C.
My real life story of drug addiction and hepatitis can be more compelling than the virtual world the kids choose to live in,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], especially if they have a chance to hear my story. My vision is to help any organization that helps our youth of today, become the leaders of tomorrow.
This is my story.
My recovery from cocaine and hepatitis worked! Why? Because I found a way to see life better without it. My path could be a method for prevention of drug abuse and disease in our society. From my perspective, there are options that can be easily implemented. With my professional background combined with the unique dual recoveries,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I have a keen insight and a unique view of creating new and successful approaches to the prevention programs.
My goal is to help the world achieve healthy livers and for everyone to be free of the hideous entrapment of cocaine addiction.
I know for a fact that good liver health will sustain the correct chemical balance in the blood stream to thwart depression and low self-assurance at an early age. The fast food generation of x, y and z are overweight and do not exercise enough and many are living their lives in a virtual world of computer games, movies and TV. If there was a way to make good liver health fun, the kids of today would have a good chance to be drug-free in our world.
I continued analysis work as an adult, becoming the chairman of a laboratory for over 8 years, and was a professional thought-leader in the nutritional and whole food supplement industry for over 24 years. By accumulating an in-depth understanding of nutrition, addiction and healing for the human body, coupled with my natural recovery from hepatitis A, B and C and cocaine addiction, I emerged into a particular focus to develop good liver health with solutions and prevention.
Nothing is more painful than to see a family member or loved one start the path of drug abuse, especially cocaine. The end result is death, either from a disease like hepatitis or from the wrong end of a gun. Today, there are more deaths from drug overdose than from automobile accidents – some from suicide, by taking too many pills; other fatalities are from cocaine. Many of us know the problem, but can we understand, utilize and implement the solutions? Only someone who has been on both sides of life and death with cocaine, addiction and disease really understands what it takes for prevention as well as complete recovery.
I have such a plan that will engage our youth into making wise choices in diet and activities where good liver health will prevail sustaining the correct chemical balance in the blood stream to thwart depression and low self-assurance. The result will be strong-willed and determined youth achieving their goals and becoming self-reliant with a utility of purposeful living,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. This is my vision; that will formulate higher learning and skill sets because the kids just want it.
However in 1991, when I was managing a laboratory in Dallas,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], TX, a family intervention took me to a hospital for my last treatment of cocaine addiction – and since then, I have been free of all mood-altering substances. At the time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I was dying from hepatitis A, B and C virus infestations and cirrhosis of the liver. The doctors had given me 8 months to live – if I was lucky – and they wondered why I was still alive at that moment. They said a liver transplant was my only hope for survival, but I opted out of the transplant and treatment protocol. The doctors further diagnosed me as "delirious."
Delirious and dying,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I found my own way to recover from hepatitis, even though for over 20 years in the past my sobriety was never long-lived. Everyone thought I would relapse and start doing cocaine all over again. You see,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], this was not my first intervention. There were many others. My family had already given up many years ago – but my brother never did, and sent the SWAT team during this last intervention. Luck was already long used up in years passed and still everyone said I did not have a prayer staying off cocaine or surviving hepatitis. BUT,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I am still clean and sober since 1991… and since 1994 I have no viral load of hepatitis A, B or C with no antibodies or markers! Today, I am a 58-year-old man in the peak of health, according to experts, "a liver of a 20-year-old."
Many in the health fields and social programs today suggest working with youth to help them get the right mindset early and in place to avoid addiction and disease - prevention is the key! However, many don't consider that good liver health is the central component to the restoration of self-reliance in our youth to avoid disease and addiction. One thing they do agree on is that depression and low self-esteem are the precursors for a youth turning to drugs as an escape and way to cope. Peer pressure and the excitement syndrome follows, and soon the weaker willed are using mood altering substances regularly.
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Switchwords are single words and are often found in various and unlimited combinations. They are one-word affirmations. Unlike the traditional affirmations that contain statements that your subconscious does not believe is true, Switchwords, bypass the interpretive aspect of your mind and engages the subconscious mind directly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], thus making the desired result a bit more automatic and without resistance.
CANCEL: Use this Switchword to eliminate negative thoughts and conditions. When you feel you are about to give up, this word is great to cancel those thoughts
DIVINE: This creates miracles of all types,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Use it with any of the other Switchwords and you will notice the difference.
ON: This is a very powerful Switchword to help you get new ideas on how to get fit.
BE: This is a powerful one, this will help you to achieve good health.
Weight issues are not only about food intake,but more about mindset. You could eat hot dogs all day and as long as you stay under your resting caloric metabolic rate, you will lose weight. Since the issues is one of mindset, the only way to get fit is to reprogram the Subconscious mind.
CRYSTAL: This is a powerful Switchword that will help you clarify any situation or things. It helps you look to the future; both mentally and through clairvoyance. I use this one to clarify intentions when I feel blocked,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. It keeps me focused on my fitness goals,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Switchwords penetrate the subconscious mind in ways that allow them to work synergistically and more effectively than just affirmations alone. They work together to make sure the subconscious mind's tendency to entrench bad habits is not activated. This means that you can make changes in your fitness level without the subconscious trying to get you back to your baseline. They are,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], for lack of a better term, powerful.
UP: This one dispels negative moods and gives you extra energy. I use this with MOVE.
The Subconscious mind is a recorder and collector of all your life experiences, the good, the bad and the ugly. This collection of information is the root of all our habits, every single one of them. This includes our eating habits. As the poor eating habits become entrenched, they get harder to break. It's for this reason it is often hard to make healthy choices when it comes to our fitness. Although it seems like a bad thing, the subconscious mind is doing this out of convenience. Since we introduced these negative thoughts and constantly reinforced them,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the subconscious mind is doing us a favor by making them routine. This routine of course leads to an expanding waistline. These routines can lead to far far worse things such as debilitating addictions. The only way to "reset" the subconscious mind so it doesn't continue to reinforce these habits is to reprogram it or at least short circuit the habit loop. One way to do this is with Switchwords.
STRETCH: This will help you prolong a good feeling, event or a sense of well-being you are experiencing. It will also help you grow intellectually, spiritually and physically. By grow I mean become better
OFF: This one is used quit an unwanted habit AND it helps you go to sleep. This Switchword does help me sleep. If I wake up in the middle of the night,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I can rely on "OFF" to help me get back to sleep quickly. I love it.
BUBBLE: This Switchword is really good at helping you expand your perceived limits, will help you push through your workout when you are fatigued.
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It's a well established fact that getting and staying fit is best for you. While we live in this body we may as well live in it feeling good and looking good. Not many people will argue with that. There is, however, one problem. Getting fit is not the most exciting thing in the world and so it takes motivation to get fit and even more motivation to stay fit.
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TINY: For fitness purposes this is great to reduce size, in other words it will help you lose weight.
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CHARM: This will help you manifest your heart's desire.
BRING: This is a manifestation Switchword, it helps you unite with your goal, helps you finish what you started.
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For me this pattern could begin to change only when I realized that I was “good enough” already. I am perfect just as I am. I wasn’t responsible for what happened way back when; for how my father did or didn’t love me. That was his stuff, I couldn’t have done anything any differently and I couldn’t have influenced his behaviour and “make” him stay or not be harmful. It wasn’t about me, therefore, I didn’t need to keep carrying the story that I wasn’t good enough. Therefore, I could drop the games. I could centre and ground myself in me and see myself as a person of worth a deservedness and love and beauty regardless of who was or wasn’t in my life. Only at that point did I become a healthy and safe person to have a relationship with, before then ……not so good!
This of course being the exact opposite effect from what my 10 year old self was trying to achieve which was this: I wanted to be so incredibly desirable; so incredibly perfect, and wonderful, and fabulous, and irreplaceable,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that he could not possibly ever consider leaving me. You see, on some unconscious level, I believed that if he would never leave then I would finally have the safety and security that I so craved since I was a little girl and my father abused and then abandoned me. That little girl was still believing on some level that it was something about her that wasn’t good enough and that she just needed to be prettier, thinner, smarter,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], funnier,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], wealthier etc. etc. and then no one would ever leave her. Well,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], surprise, surprise, people did leave her – leave me. And they were right to. I was confused. I was inauthentic. I was manipulative. I was desperate and needy and I placed the responsibility for my happiness on them rather than owning it myself.
I also began to recognize in myself (big ego here) that I would say or do things specifically to try and impress my love. Funnily enough it was often these things that he later brought back to me as things that he felt hurt or disappointed by or felt demonstrated a lack of integrity in my or respect for him etc. I would do things like point out my ex-boyfriends car (fancy black thing) when we drove by his building (only did that once by the way! but I did it not for any other reason than I thought it would impress my sweetheart and make him find me more of a good catch) – yes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I admit it! I behaved like a 10 year old more often than I’d like to admit. I’m half cringing/half laughing as I admit this but it does need to be said and most importantly, worked through and left behind. It seemed that every time I did or said something that was meant (from a very gamey/insecure place I’ll admit) to make my sweetheart love or want me more it would actually disgust or offend him. In hindsight I can absolutely understand why those things didn’t go over well, if not only because of the insecurity and lack of groundedness I was revealing to him in needing to prove my worth – let alone the silly things I was saying and doing to try and impress him. The most interesting thing for me about that pattern was that a moment before I would say or do one of those silly things I would hear my higher self saying “um, Michelle,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you probably don’t want to say this” and I’d have a strange feeling in my tummy but I’d say it anyway and lo and behold we’d have a disagreement or at the very least my sweetheart would have reason to step back and wonder about the health of our connection.
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I discovered that I had a piece of work to do on expressing genuine love and affection when I’m angry or hurt – I would go into my ego and get into some all or nothing thinking where I couldn’t give my partner a real warm hug for example when I was feeling hurt or angry. It would take me a while to warm up to him after there had been some discord between. I don’t think that has to be the case, nor do I think it’s a very strong demonstration of the depth of my love for this person. I want to be a person who has a heart that is more open than that – I’d like to be a person who doesn’t play games, however unconsciously with my love and trust myself to not withhold my love from my partner when we’re having a problem.
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All this is to say that through the experience of coming face to face, time and again with the death cycle of relationship these pieces of growth work (my unfinished business), were revealed to me. As I opened myself to their message and stepped up to do my work my relationships got healthier and finally had the chance to deepen into something worthwhile and lasting. I couldn’t have had a healthy, loving and lasting relationship prior to this moment because I didn’t know what was alive in me that was preventing my connections from being deep, intimate and healthy. Now that I knew I could do my work. In having these realizations, some only very recently, my authentic self could finally settle down and relax. It could let go and trust me to handle relationships in a mature and respectful way (for me and my partner) and not in the old co-dependent way. That in itself my friends, is well worth the price of admission!
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Instead, not only is it a common place word but it is also a ominous reminder of the dissolution of nearly half of all marriages that take place. It is bad news when you consider that 50% of all couples marrying today have no more than a fifty-fifty chance of being together 5-7 years from now.
Few couples realize what it takes for a marriage to work. For one thing a marriage is never static. It needs the constant effort of both the partners to keep it moving on the upward path. When there is lack of effort in a relationship, love is the first casualty. Your partner can sense when you are disappointed in him or her,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even if you try to hide it.
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Courtship and marriage is all about the whirlwind days when reality takes a back seat, and all hopes and aspirations are tucked away for the unforeseeable future. And, unfortunately, this is as far as it goes. It is not long before the cracks and the fissures begin to appear. Staring in your face are the inadequacies and incompatibilities you so chose to ignore. Add to this a prolonged sense of expectation and a false sense of self-importance, and the recipe for disaster is complete.
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