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When you feel stuck and almost paralyzed if you will merely get up and do something, any thing, your attitude will change and you will feel better. It can be as simple as get up and wash a glass. I heard this saying years ago and just loved it "Move a muscle and change a thought".
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What ever the goal, once achieved it is a tremendous esteem builder and perpetuates the feeling of self-worth.
My ESTEEM Principle is designed so that women are able to look at their lives from a different perspective, shifting paradigms and ultimately creating the life they really want. Building self-esteem is one of the keys to walking through the fear of inadequacy and paves the way to become powerful beyond measure. Here is the break out of the ESTEEM Principle. Taking these steps lays the foundation from which to build the life of your dreams.
Whatever it is that you want success in; love, money, spiritual peace or just life in general - Emulate someone who is already successful in that area.
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My dream has come true! I have the most loving relationship and marriage to the man of my dreams for over seventeen years. You must first have the dream!
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Try something new - Embrace Change, it just might make you feel better. There is one constant - everything is always changing.
As we're liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
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Or maybe you are going through a change, either at the beginning of it or smack dab in the middle of it. The thought of Embracing it may never have crossed your mind and frankly does not sound desirable. The fact is that change itself is not what causes pain, it is the resistance to change that causes our pain. There is also a saying that goes "What you resist, persists."
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Example - If you want to have a successful marriage then find someone who already has that, ask them what is their secret. If you don't know anyone who has a successful marriage then make it a point to find them. Hire a coach (like me), read a book, take a workshop. First you set your intention then what ever resources you need, you will attract.
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Without dreams there is so much less meaning to our lives. The simplest dream can seem the most out of reach. I remember my first dream that I had as a young woman, it was to have loving marriage. At the time I had never even had a healthy relationship with a man. I had already been married once and divorced and did not want to do that again. I had no idea how that could ever come true, but I just allowed myself to dream of it.
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The first step is to recognize if something needs to change in your life. This is not always easy, sometimes it takes one of those "Awakening moments". It is that wake up moment that we all have at some time in our lives, where we either change and grow or stay and wither.
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In years past I was never able to really grasp the significance of this Marianne Williamson quote. As I reflect on my life today I completely get what she means. What changed? - The ESTEEM Principle. By Embracing Change, Strengthen Values, Thinking Dreams, Envisioning Goals, Emulating Success and Motivating I took a fearful woman (me) from a feeling of inadequacy to feeling powerful beyond measure.
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"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
What are your values? When was the last time you thought about what you value? How well are you currently living your life in alignment with what you value? Once you become clear on what you value AND you start to living your life aligned with these values, your life will improve for the better dramatically. You cannot help but feel good about yourself and increase you level of esteem.
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Inner Chest
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Secret #4: Success Isn't A Destination, And You Can't Possess It
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The best coaches don't rely on your human drive to avoid pain (humiliation, guilt, etc). Instead, they fan the flames of your motivation to seek whatever you're passionate about.
So give yourself some credit. Just because you struggle to lose 10 pounds doesn't mean you're a wimpy, undisciplined loser. It just means you don't know how to focus yet.
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On the other hand, when you choose a fulfilling life, every step you take in the direction of every desire becomes an act of fulfillment. You experience fulfillment as an internal choice that creates a perpetual state of being: you feel fulfilled every day.
In my opinion, coaching that goes on indefinitely, with you relying on the support of your coach to achieve goals (but not learning new skills) is codependency, not coaching. Intentionally or not,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], anyone who does this isn't a coach, they're a parasite. True life coaches have a set of strategies you can use to evolve yourself for the rest of your life. Beyond merely achieving goals, coaching is about your growth as a human being.
The purported benefit of this strategy is to narrow the overwhelming field of career choices. To alleviate your suffering, the coach squeezes you into one of a handful of boxes, then hands you a relatively short list of careers that some undefined percentage of those with your personality type could be “successful” in.
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The icing on the cake is that since studies have shown that the Myers-Briggs does not predict job success well, using it for this purpose is expressly discouraged in its manual. But inexplicably, lots of coaches make gobs of money doing just that. That just seems unethical, or at least antithetical to the spirit of coaching.
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When you're driven to succeed, you allow yourself to feel good only after you've completely achieved that desire. But in this scenario, the good feeling eventually fades, which prompts you to go after another goal so you can feel good again.
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Never mind that these tests have no scientific validity. Meaning, you could take the same test on two different days and get two very different results. On top of that, these tests compare you to arbitrary norms (which are gender, ethnicity and culturally biased), ignoring your individuality and your context.
To achieve the results they tout, coaches preach action. Lots of it. They think that if you do more, you’ll get more, faster. They'll sell you fancy spreadsheets and planners to track your actions, too.
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As I stated in my previous post, most coaches describe their role as holding you accountable to take big actions before the next coaching call. Their strategy is that you'll be motivated by the desires to avoid the humiliation of having nothing to report, and this scheme does work. Avoiding humiliation is a strong motivator, but it pulls you away from your greatest source of power: your passion. So accountability is the default strategy for coaches who don't have any tools to address the real issue: how to deal with the negative thoughts that block you from freely pursuing your passion.
When you order the fish, you've excluded the steak or the chicken from that meal. But from herbs to cooking methods to side dishes, there are innumerable variations on any food you choose. Don't forget that every meal also includes a salad and a dessert—more ways to satisfy your palate. The point is, there are infinite ways to spice up your career, your relationships, and every other part of your life so that you'll feel full (fulfilled) every day. The only limitation is your imagination.
After coaching 600 people, I've seen that you don’t need to develop strong skills of commitment, courage or discipline to enjoy a fulfilling life. All you need is passion.
Secret #2: Personality Tests are Worthless for Choosing Your Career
While you may see some improvement in one session, life-altering, permanent improvements take time, repeated focus,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and learning new ways to do things differently. Of course, major shifts can happen,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but both you and your coach will put unnecessary pressure on yourselves by trying to force you to make a huge change you don't need or aren't ready for.
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In my research, I've found that there are basically 2 kinds of life coaches, and the contrast is stark. There are coaches who say they'll hold you accountable and help you stay motivated until you achieve your goals. They tout their excellent listening and questioning skills as their core talents. In my admittedly unscientific survey,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], about 99% of the coaches I have met in person and online fall into this category.
Here's the proof: If you've ever worked a job you didn't like for more than 10 minutes, you have discipline. My bet is that you've worked for years at jobs you found boring or otherwise uninspiring, did favors for others you didn't want to do, and performed admirable household chores to boot. That takes HUGE discipline!
But in all of this act-act-act, you can lose sight of your motivation: why you want what you want. It’s by staying focused on why you want something—the benefits of having it—that you’ll find the juice to keep pursuing it until you get it.
There are many confusing and false messages bouncing around in cyberspace about life coaching. After coaching 600 people over the past 13 years, talking with dozens of coaches and surfing the websites of about 100 more, I'm sharing my take on what coaching is—and isn't. I'd like to say upfront that my intention is not to offend or denigrate. I'm simply stating my informed opinion, which is best taken with a grain of salt.
The DISC is based on the faulty logic that you possess one of four personality types, which can be teased out by forcing you to choose one of four options for each question on the test. What if you don't agree with any of the choices? If you choose enough options that don't reflect what you truly think, the results are less than worthless. They can be destructively misguiding.
With that said, I do believe that all coaches have a genuine desire to assist. However, most coaches' training (if they have any) is, well, the nicest words I can think of are...incomplete and, in some instances, inappropriate.
There's a pervasive belief in our culture that making a commitment creates limitations. When you choose one career or one mate, you're essentially un-choosing every other possibility. You're stuck with your choice, forever sacrificing other attractive options.
Any coach who tells you that you'll achieve a certain level in 1,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],3, or 10 coaching sessions is ignoring your individuality and your responsibility for your own growth. This is inconsistent with the basic philosophy of coaching.
Secret #1: Promising You Instant Results is Impossible
The Industrial and Information Ages have proliferated a plethora of gadgets, pills, books and videos that promise instant results. Not surprisingly, you’ve been programmed to expect that coaching will immediately make your life better.
Coaches insist that it takes discipline and commitment to be successful. But you already possess all the discipline, commitment and courage you need to get anything you want. You just don't know it, you certainly can't feel it and you don't need it, anyway. In their defense, most coaches are unaware of this, too.
The best coaches will tell you that your personality traits are simply patterns of behavior you’ve developed (and gotten comfortable with) over your lifetime. As a pattern of behavior,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], any trait can be consciously changed any time you like, if you have the tools. Accordingly, their conversation about your career won't use the strategy of matching a job in Column A to a trait in Column B.
Accordingly, many coaches feel strong pressure to fulfill this expectation by producing some kind of dramatic “breakthrough” in every coaching session. The idea is that if the coach asks you the right deep questions, you'll have a brilliant flash of insight. There are two fallacies here. The first is in thinking that coaches “do” something to their clients. In fact, it's up to the client to take the actions that will produce the results they're looking for.
Second, coaching is a process, not an event.
Sure, questioning is a major part of coaching. But the role of questions isn't to sledge hammer you into a dramatic breakthrough. Questions are one tool used to guide you in your process of gaining incrementally deeper self-knowledge. The goal of coaching isn't to rush to get it done, it's to help you learn as much as you can.
The processes of learning and making internal shifts in thinking is as unique as fingerprints and as unknowable as the depths of the ocean. It takes whatever time you need. Even with the biggest crystal ball in the world, no coach can promise a specific result by a certain date.
Secret #5: Success Doesn't Require Discipline. Even If You Think You Need It, You Have Plenty Of It
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We never did know for sure who our phantom Santa was, even though we had a pretty good idea. We will forever be grateful to that family who gave us so much that year; a fun filled Christmas season, some true gifts of the spirit, the basis for forming everlasting friendships as well as a tradition for our family to carry on.
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The ensuing months brought us a larger than usual share of disappointments and financial burdens. We were facing Christmas with a rapidly diminishing savings account and far away from families and old friends.
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Step 1. Include your children in your important decisions at some level. Including your children is a great way to unify your family which will make you stronger during the tough times.
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